These days, the phrase " and its derivatives" is what truly makes Debian shine.
With Debian, it’s a fantastic server environment.. Many of the Debian derivatives bring out other characteristics. The one I use, antiX Linux, is outstanding across of wide range of aging systems, with the consequences that you have to create your own variations or “respins” if you need the latest kernel to support very recent hardware, or you change the mix of applications because the ones provided are intended for systems from 5, 10, 15, or even more years ago.
Another alternative is MX Linux; a middle of the road distribution fine crafted as an easy to use, modest resource, general purpose system. Often it shows up on the “Leader Board” of distributions simply because it’s reasonably easy and works well.
Then there’s the alternatives that come from business ventures, such as the *buntu variations produced by Canonical or the plug it in and go versions from the Linux Mint project.
Enthusiasts go in different directions; sometimes those “ready to go” distributions do not appeal to the do it yourself hobbyist, but the value is that they work well; that’s all that some people are looking for.
Besides efficiency, I’ll tell you what I like about both the MX Linux and antiX Linux projects: both have a really good collection of tools that allow people an easy way to back up their systems that also happens to be a great way to tailor, customize, and repackage your own setup, all while creating a useful backup image.
These are things that can be done with Debian alternatives, but the firm foundation has been put in place by Debian developers, enabling repackagers like antiX to do the things they want - such as scrapping systemd in favor of leaner streamlined process initiation and service management tools.
Not too long ago I pulled out my aging Dell Inspiron 5558 laptop and updated siduction, a Debian Sid alternative that emphasizes cutting edge software and high performance efficiency. Unlike antiX, siduction sticks with systemd and other standard Debian features, adding it’s own highlights by building recent vintage performance tuned system kernels and system utilities.
I hope I’ve given you enough examples of why a conservative Debian system with an ultra reliable core is only one of the many reasons why Debian continues to excel. The other reasons are that derivatives based on this solid foundation are able to create a multitude of variations, each that adds a distinctive set of characteristics. As much as their core foundation is similar, the surrounding components have as much variety and variation as the countries and nations of this earth.
Like the creatures of earth, at times there are contentious discussions and even strong disagreements; these often turn into forks in the road, and as long as there are no destructive wars, what emerges is a rich ecosystem with varieties as endless as the imagination of the individuals involved in their creation!